If you are pretty upset because your boyfriend does not call you as often as you would like him to do, then there are some steps you could take to make him get on the phone and call you without being too demanding. The trick is to motivate him into calling you. Here are some ways to do that.
Don’t call him every day
Stop calling him a hundred times a day. This could put him off and he might begin to think that you are too demanding. He would hate to feel forced to call you and talk to you. If you stop calling him every day, he will have some breathing space and he will wonder why you are not in touch. This in turn will make him call you.
Act aloof and disinterested
You don’t have pull a long face and plead or beg him to call you. It just shows him how insecure you feel and how desperate you are. He will get the idea that you constantly need to be assured that you are loved. In fact if you act aloof and disinterested and do not bother to call him he will wonder if he has lost his attraction. This will make him want to call you instead.
Get busy and involved in a lot of activities
The best way not to keep hanging around the telephone waiting for him to call is to get busy with other activities. If he notices that you are being too busy to miss him he may be scared of losing you altogether. This will definitely make him get in touch with you. Even if he does begin to call you don’t gush and let him know that you were dying to talk to him.
Respond in a loving manner when he calls
Could it be that you have not been responding in the right manner when he called you? Think back and check if your attitude has put him off and thus made him cool off and stop calling. Be sincere and don’t try to bully him into calling you. Respond in a loving manner and make him feel good.
Get him addicted to your “chats”
Don’t be abrupt or sound as though you are nagging him. He will never want to talk to you on the phone in a hurry if you sound pushy or complaining. Instead learn how to sound romantic and sexy on the phone. Get him addicted to your love chats and he will call you every night.
Get your friends to call you
If you find that your boyfriend is neglecting you by not calling you too often, you can trick him into thinking that you don’t mind because you have other “interesting” calls to take. Ask your friends to call you when he is around. Let him see you having long and animated talks with “someone”. This should scare him into calling you more.
Give him something to look forward to every day
One way into getting him to call you is to hint and promise him something exciting if he calls you. Be mysterious and enigmatic. Make him want to call you just to hear what you have to say. Be adoring and romantic by using words that will boost his ego and make him feel special at the same time.